How to Give a Good Blowjob To Your Guy!

Oral sex is the perfect form of foreplay and a fun way to surprise your partner with a special treat. If done correctly, a proper blowjob will bring your relationship to the next level and leave your boyfriend in shocked bliss.

Most girls get very nervous at the thought of giving their boyfriend “head” and in result, they over think things. They focus so much on making sure they do things they’ve heard to be “right”, that they forget to enjoy themselves and to just follow the signs your boyfriend gives you. Right off the bat, your boyfriend will let you know whether he’s enjoying what you’re doing or not. Listen to his moans, or feel how his body moves with or against you. There are clear signs to whether or not he’s in ecstasy or very bored.

My first blowjob was extremely nerve-racking. I was too worried about doing what I thought a blowjob consisted of (sucking on his penis), that I completely neglected the rest of his body, I didn’t enjoy myself at all, and I had no idea how important it was to not use your teeth. Needless to say, it was a disaster. It wasn’t until I got with my current boyfriend that I finally realized how much fun giving a blowjob can be and finally mastered the skill. It can be so empowering to see your partner’s face of complete pleasure right as he orgasms. You will feel like superwoman.

Clearly I had to learn a lot to get to the point where I feel like I’ve mastered the blowjob. It’s shocking how easy it can be to master, if you really have the desire to please your boyfriend through oral sex. There are some things you need to know NOT to do before I can list tips on how to make it an amazing experience for both you and your partner:

Do NOT use your teeth! – Teeth are a big NO when giving a blowjob. Men fear women who bite at their penis, it’s not sexy it’s painful! The way I learned to ensure that your teeth never come in contact with his penis is to fold your lips over them slightly and make sure you don’t rub the penis against them. By wetting your lips and making sure they fold over your teeth, you can ensure that they won’t get in the way of your blowjob while also allowing your wet lips to be the first thing that touches his penis.

Do NOT just hold your mouth open! – Part of the joy in receiving oral sex is knowing that your partner is enjoying pleasing you. Do not just wrap your mouth around his penis and suck. This is both boring and not exciting; your partner does not just want you to do it because he asks you to, but because you want to please him as well.

Now that you know what NOT to do, I can give you some things that you CAN do to make the experience unforgettable. These things I learned through experience and worked like a charm with my boyfriend.

The penis is overall very sensitive, but the most sensitive spot for most men is the head of the penis. This is then the area you want to focus on the most while performing oral sex. There are various things you can do to the head that will blow your man’s mind .

Swirl your tongue around the head of the penis slowly. Remember to hide your teeth behind your lips and make sure that your lips and mouth are very wet. You can make things better by changing the speed in which you do this and the direction on which you swirl your tongue.

Tap your tongue against the head of his penis or under the crown of the penis. Change where and how fast you tap your tongue.
Suck lightly on the head of the penis. Like everything, mix things up with speed and force of sucking. Don’t suck to hard as it can be sometimes painful.
Lick the around and on the head. Imagine his penis is a lollipop and enjoy

Now the there is more to a penis and there are other things, that when mixed with head-focused techniques will add up to an amazing blowjob.
Make sure you wet the penis with your mouth and saliva. A dry blowjob is not good. If you have to build up some spit in your mouth before giving head this is better than being completely dry.

Step 1) Use your hands!

Make a fist with your hand and push his penis through. When his head breaks through the fist put it straight in your mouth. This gives a similar feeling to entering a vagina.  To make it even more interesting use both hands doing the same thing but instead of putting your mouth after the first fist, do it after the second and mix up the speed.

Make a ring with your thumb and pointer finger and place it snug on the base of the penis. This allows you to control when he cum’s by adding more pressure while also allowing you to keep the penis steady. Massage his inner thighs, hold his hands, run your nails lightly over his back, naval or thighs to make him shudder with pleasure while also making a more intimate connection with your partner.

Step 2) Make Eye Contact!

If you look up occasionally at your partner with “smiling” eyes (maybe even smile yourself) showing that you’re both aware of him and love what you’re doing, it will make your partner feel amazing, and thus make the blowjob better!

Step 3) Use “Head Shake”

This is a trick I taught myself that my boyfriend loves. Push his penis slowly into your mouth and as you pull it back out shake your head from side to side so that every part of your lips and tongue touch him at some point while pulling out. If you’ve mastered making sure your teeth are not touching, you can do this fast and it will lead to a lot of pleasure and a lot of fun. J Be careful though because teeth can be a big issue with this trick.

Step 4) Use “Figure Eights”

While his penis is in your mouth draw an imaginary figure eight with your nose. This will move the penis in your mouth allowing for your lips to really massage the head or shaft (depending on how deep the penis is). Make sure to use your tongue during this as well for added pleasure.

Step 5) Use “Bottom’s Up!”

Start from the base of the penis and lick from the base to the head slowly. Really act like you are savoring each lick. As you reach the head, look up at him, smile, and flick the head of the penis with your tongue as you finish the long lick. This will drive your boyfriend wild especially if you’re used to not making eye contact at all.  These are just some steps I hope can really help women bring they’re blowjobs to the next level as it has to mine.

I discovered all of these tips through just asking questions like “do you like this baby?” during oral sex. Or “do you like it when I do this baby?” If you’re unsure about what to do, don’t be afraid of asking him these questions. Act like you know what you’re doing and just follow his body signs. He will moan or breathe heavier when he likes what you’re doing, or might even just tell you how amazing it feels. As long as you enjoy yourself and keep in mind what NOT to do, you can mix up the tips I gave and be sure that you’ll give an amazing blowjob.

The more you do it, the better you get. These are one of those things where practice makes perfect and you can always learn ways to improve or change things up! I hope you enjoyed my tips and I wish you the best!

Love,

Bella

P.S. I found this particular guide really useful to learn this stuff fast: Click Here To Learn How To Give Better Head

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