Dirty talk phrases can be either cheesy or incredible sexy, depending on which dirty phrases you decide to say. When learning how to talk dirty to a man, it can be easy for a woman to find a list of “pickup line” style dirty talk phrases and instantly feel “stupid” just thinking about using them.

But talking dirty is not about saying a bunch of corny dirty talk phrases to your man and hoping that they turn him on without making you feel embarrassed of your dirty talk. Talking dirty is more about finding the right dirty talk phrases that speak directly to YOUR man and his unique sexual desires.

Start with dirty talk phrases he’s familiar with already and already trigger a sexual reaction from him when they enter his ears. Any words he already associates with sex (i.e. body parts, actions, reactions, etc) are the first words you should include in your dirty talk phrases because he already interprets them sexually.

Dirty talk phrases break down into the following categories:

Dirty talk phrase 1: Questions

Asking him questions like “do you like that?” as you’re pleasing him is a great first-step dirty phrase to start from. Your active attention and obvious concern for his pleasure is arousing to a man simply for the fact that, by doing so, he knows you’re paying attention to him, and your “head is in the game”

Dirty talk phrase 2: Confessions

Talking dirty while being pleased comes in the form of confessing your pleasure and the extent in which he’s making you feel good. Essentially, your confessions are the answers to his question of “Does she like what I’m doing?” which is in his head far before he gets the courage to ask. The same goes for saying “I want you to” and giving him direction in bed. By talking dirty with confessions, you’re reassuring him of how good he is in bed so there is no doubt in his mind what-so-ever.

Dirty talk phrase 3: Commands

Learning how to talk dirty with commands is probably the most fun dirty talk phrases you will use because you basically get to boss him around at your will. Even aggressive men who like to stay in control are aroused by a woman commanding him sexually as an expression of her own selfish sexual desire. A confident women who’s in control of her own sexuality has no problem commanding her lover to please her in any way she see’s fit. And what most women don’t realize is that men appreciate the guidance just as much as you like to see him deliver the goods.

Smart women across the globe understand that its not even the words or dirty phrases that matters, it’s the context in which you use them in your dirty talk that count. Your best dirty talk phrases will come naturally once you know how to apply them in the right place, at the right time. Knowing how the dirty dialogue unfolds is your secret “cheat code” to talking dirty to your man in a way that pleases him and keeps him begging for more.

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“Right Now! Hey! It’s your tomorrow…”

Right now. That’s all there is to it.

When you’re having sex, its happening “right now,” but a lot of the time, your man’s head may be focused on a fantasy. It could be about you, perhaps a porno he once saw…or maybe a girl he was with before you started dating.

Who knows? The point is – talking dirty to your man is your chance to snap him out of fantasy land and experience you for who you really are – pure feminine radiance.

Right now! Wake up buddy, the time is now. The first step in talking dirty is knowing how to talk dirty in a way to get your man’s wandering attention in bed. Learn how to talk dirty in a way that gets him in the moment, the “now” where you both consciously experience each other, where real connection is born.

But guess what? That also means you must embrace the moment yourself, and not run away if you get a little anxious, feeling like you’ve been put on the spot like a mouse cornered by a pussy cat.

The mouse fears for its life, but if you are afraid to acknowledge the fact that you’re having sex, and talking dirty “right now” in the moment, you may feel like your life was actually on the line.

No, seriously. I talk about this in detail in my new book “Dirty Dialogue: How To WOW Your Man With Words!” because its that fascinating.

There is deep psychology going on here. When someone is “aroused”, whether it be due to some freak accident that snaps them into the moment, or “sexually aroused” where, well… you feel electrifying sparks of sexual energy bursting through your body. Either way, it’s the forced recognition of “right now”.

“Arousal is important in regulating consciousness, attention, and information processing. It is crucial for motivating certain behaviors, such as mobility, the pursuit of nutrition, the fight or flight responses and sexual behavior.”

When you are aroused, your fight or flight mechanism goes off. It fires either A) fear or B) appetite. Its no mystery as to which one is better for having sex, and especially for talking dirty.

The only reason anyone would freeze up when saying dirty things in bed is because they are currently hard-wired to cause arousal to trigger “Flight” (or fear) instead of “Fight” (or appetite).  Just recognizing this consciously will be enough for you to catch yourself the next time it happens, so you can learn to disassociate from the “fear” and not your man.

Don’t fear having sex “right now”, embrace it. Make him embrace it too. Learn how to talk dirty by using this one attention grabbing phrases and step into the spotlight, not matter how scary it may seem. His reaction will be worth it, I promise!

Start talking dirty by saying “right now” whenever you’re telling him what you want, or wish he was doing to you…right now. That’s they key. As long as you are telling him you want sex “right now” – especially if he can’t have it right now- it will make his penis squirm a bit and hunger for your love.

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Haha, I like saying that “right now” its fun isn’t it? Go try it out. Share your experiences on my comments below…I love reading them ;-P

Stay Dirty

Devi D

Tuesday, 12:56am

Los Angeles, CA

“Can I have it like that?  You got it like that…”

-Pharrell Williams and Gwen Stephanie

Hey There…

You like that?  I like that.  In fact, if we both like that…then the sex is going to be amazing.  But what if you don’t know what he likes?  It’s simple, you ask!  Think about how many time’s he’s probably asked you by now if you “like that?” Its extremely subtle, but its always there at some point in time. whether you already know it or not.

So it looks like the dirty talk example of today is the dirty phrase, “Like that?”/”Like that!”  Look!  there’s two of a kind!

Talking dirty is a back and forth exchange of questions and comments.  If you learn how to talk dirty in a way that allows an even flow of sexual “conversation” then your man will always know what you like.  Think about that for a second.  Talking dirty comes very natural to a man, since part of him just wants to know if he’s doing a good job, and needs a pat on the back.

Imagine a world where your man would do whatever you wanted him to in bed, and that his goal in the sack was to please you, which is his ultimate way of satisfying himself.  Sounds pretty cool, huh?  Well guess what.

It’s the truth.

He asks “you like that baby?” because he genuinely wants to know.  A man is motivated by his actions and finds his purpose through accomplishment and achievement.  Having sex with you is no different.

At a genetic level, he desperately wants to knock you up, so that he can reproduce his genes.  Its pretty heavy stuff.  What he might not consciously know (which his body instinctually does) is that the contractions of your orgasm makes it incredibly easier for his sperm to impregnate you, which makes his inherent primal goal to make you cum.

Not too bad of a position to be in, I might add.  And incredibly easy to implement right away.

When you are talking dirty to your man, learn how to talk dirty to him through giving him positive feedback on his sexual actions.  If he’s doing something to you, and you and it really feels good, encourage him by talking dirty with questions and comments.

Tell him how much you “like that.”  You’ll be amazed at the burst of energy a little bit of positive reinforcement can cause just by talking dirty with direction.  Think of it like it was a massage – do you like that or not?

Ask him the same thing when you’re pleasing him.  Learn how to talk with questions, phrases, and start to see it like a game of ping/pong.  I mean, think about it – if you’re doing all the work, do you want to know if he likes what you’re doing?  Ask him!  Talking dirty is as easy as asking for feedback on your OWN sexual actions as well.

And trust me; he’ll be eager to give you feedback with his own dirty talk phrases.  He’s actually the best dirty talk example you have – since it’s HIM that we’re talking dirty to here, not anyone else!

Here’s the bottom line:  The dirty talk phrase “like that” can be used as both a question and a comment while talking dirty, both giving you and your man feedback on how much pleasure you are both having, what you like, what you like more, etc.  You’re exploring each other!  Have fun with it!

Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

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I’ll leave that up for you to decide.  And today’s the best day to decide on getting this stuff handled for good, taking control of your own sexuality and seriously making big changes in your life as a woman.  I’ve said enough…