But I’m going to tell you anyway.

The confession is that I’ve been working around the clock to get to the very bottom of this whole “how to talk dirty” thing.

Seriously, for MONTHS I’ve even found myself putting off other responsibilities to do research on the topic.  I’ve talk to as many people as I can about it and ask more questions then your average news reporter chasing a hot lead.

It’s become a bit of an “obsession” for me.

“But why?” you may ask…

(I know, its kind of a strange obsession to have…but there IS a reason).

And I’ll explain that reason by telling you a little bit about who I am and what brought me here.

First of all…I’m a guy.  This might shock you, or it may not. Either way, you have every right to wonder what I’m doing researching and writing articles for girls and giving advice about talking dirty to men.

Doesn’t really make sense off the bat…

But I’m not a normal guy (by any means)(and no…I’m not gay if that’s what you’re thinking ;-P)

I’ve had multiple long term relationships over the course of my life which all shared a common theme.

That theme was “sexual exploration.”

Each girlfriend I had was at a stage in her evolution where she was just coming to terms with her own sexuality.  Oddly enough, I seemed to attract girls who were seeking help setting themselves free.

Each girl was totally different…but each shared the same sexual stifling.  Each time I was able to pull the “freak” out of all of them.

I never knew how exactly…I just had a way of helping them realize it was “ok” to do, say, and act any way they wanted with me in bed.

And I learned a lot about myself in the process.

And it always started with “talking dirty” one way or another.  We would always find ourselves talking about our deepest, inner most fantasies and sharing our most secret desires.

But I NEVER thought anything of it.

Then, two things happened:

1)    I fell in love with a girl…who turned out to be the biggest sexual “challenge” I’ve ever had in my life.  (Which is great…I love a challenge.  Especially when it involves helping someone I love overcome their difficulties and grow in the long term)

And

2)    I started a new career  working for a self development company…helping guys find the core confidence they need to become naturally attractive men.

Let me show you how it all ties together.

As I started looking at potential problems out there (that people were searching for answers to) I discovered that “How to talk dirty” was a VERY popular search online…and that there was a growing demand for answers that crack the code of this sexual anomaly.

I had also just gotten back into the mind-set of “sexual exploration” and “sexual development” with the girl who I will graciously proclaim as the love of my life.

So I put 2 and 2 together.

Now I find myself learning more and more about the subject every single day.  But I’m not content with just writing a few articles and giving simple ideas.

I decided to write my very own eBook on the topic.  And its an eBook that approaches the subject like nothing else out there…by tapping into the primal triggers of a mans core sexuality and giving you the tools necessary to uncovering exactly what your man (specifically) wants to hear you say.

(Like I said…completely different angle then “here’s a bunch of lines that may or may not work”)

And it’s been a long, hard road…

…interviewing MULTIPLE women about this stuff from all walks of life…

…getting over 300 respondants on our survey and analyzing their own problems in chilling detail…

…and, of course, experimenting with ALL of this stuff my own personal relationship ;-P

Not to mention, the women i’ve met who take this stuff seriously are some of the most interesting human beings i’ve ever known.  The stories they tell, the feedback they give (and the dirty little tricks they keep up their sleves) are worth their weight in gold.

I’m truly blessed to be at the center of such life-changing insight.

Thats why I offer my new ebook risk-free for 2 whole months, because it’s the real deal- THATS how confident I am (in both of us).

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But one more thing…

I ask you one question, and from that one question I know I can get you the answers you are looking for.

The question is this:

What was the driving force that motivated you to sit down to your computer and search for ways to learn how to talk dirty to your partner?  What’s the REAL reason you are here?  Why do you want to learn how to talk dirty?

(ok… that was 3 questions lol but you get the idea, right?)

Here’s an example:

I asked a close girlfriend of mine the same question and she told me:

“Because I want to sexually satisfy my boyfriend the best I can”

But this answer is just a MEANS to an end.  I followed up by asking her “Why do you want to sexually satisfy your boyfriend?” and she was taken back a bit.

(Ultimately the REAL reason was that she wanted to feel like the ultimate object of his desire…never giving him a chance to want to cheat on her…so she would feel secure).

As you can see…the REAL answer was far deeper then her first thought.

Now…I ask you the very same question.  I want to get to know what is making you want to master this part of your life…and ultimately find you the answer you can apply instantly.

(And I promise to do it too.  I have an overwhelming sense of duty here that I can’t quite explain in words.)

Do me a favor and take 5 minutes of your time to write out the answer as a comment to this blog post  when you’re done reading (and its fresh on your mind).

Your feedback means the world to me.

(Also, if you can include such things as your age, relationship status (i.e. duration, commitment, etc) and anything else that can help me learn more about your unique situation, I would more then appreciate it.)

Anyways, I know I’ve written a lot here and I thank you for sticking through it all.  I hope we can work together to find the answers to all of your questions…and really get your sexual communication blasted to new levels.

Thanks in advance for your thoughtful reply

Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

And I got the #1 Rule you MUST obey in order to talk dirty from the core of your being (read: the REAL dirty talk your man really wants to hear…)

Know what it is?

Stop thinking. That is the number one rule for today.  Talking and thinking are easily intertwined and can ruin
 one another.

Let me explain.

Have you ever heard the term “think before you speak?”  Of course, we all have. We were all taught that at a very young age.  That we should “think” before We communicate 
our thoughts.

We are told that our thoughts may not be “appropriate” and should be filtered by our minds.

Sure, that works.  In grammar school.

But sex is obviously not grammar.

Society tells us that we should act a certain way, behave within certain boundaries, and portray ourselves by means of filling the mold that has been created for us.
This is called “Social Conditioning.”

Social conditioning tells women that being sexual is wrong.  Ever since the dawn of man, the female sex drive has been under scrutiny, ranging from every culture in the world to every religion in history.

Social conditioning tells us that women who love sex have labels.  They use such labels as “whore” or “slut” to define a “promiscuous woman” and judge them till no end.
Just for acting on their sexual impulses…or even acknowledging that it exists.

(Note:  The word “whore” in old English actually translates to “desire.”  Go figure.)

With all of this nonsense being pounded into your brain your entire life, it is very easy to believe the story it tells.

Obviously, this leads to the “thoughts” before “speaking” to be heavily skewed in favor of what NOT to say…out of fear of judgment, embarrassment and pain.
You know that little voice in your head that says “No!  You can’t say that!” then creates a laundry list of reasons to justify it?  You know that weird angst in your gut you feel when wanting to tell him whats REALLY on your mind?

THAT is what I’m talking about here.  THAT is social conditioning at its finest.  Programming your mind with what NOT to do.

Are you with me?

Clearly, this “no” voice is stifling your sex drive and ruining your chance at fully expressing your sexuality.  Its stopping you from saying all the dirty little things you want to do to your man…and especially the dirty things you want HIM to do to YOU.

Stop!

Don’t think.  That is the goal for tonight.  When things start heating up with your lover tonight and you want to talk dirty… but that little “no” voice acts up…SAY IT IMMEDIATELY.

No hesitation.  Speak before it convinces you not to.  You’ll be surprised how liberating it is.

Now, instead of giving you a million and one “dirty things to say” right off the bat, I am giving you all the tools you need to elevate your sexuality from the very core of your being.  This is a fun and exciting process that you will enjoy.

But, if you really want to get a jump start on things (especially  tackling the whole “social conditioning” issue) then I have just the thing for you.
I actually wrote an entire chapter in my new eBook “Dirty Dialogue:  A Good Girl’s Guide To Being Bad” that rips apart social conditioning…

…explains what’s *really* going on (and how they’ve programmed you to NOT talk dirty)…

…and exactly how to use this all as leverage to fearlessly unleash any sliver of repressed sexuality you have, and deliver super-hot dirty talk almost instantly!

Plus – if you need some serious “quick fixes” right away, I’ve included 3 free bonuses stuffed to the brim with  dirty talk scripts, tips, tricks and tactics you can
use immediately.

Check it out…

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Stay Dirty,

Devian Day