Devian Day, at your service

And I got the #1 Rule you MUST obey in order to talk dirty from the core of your being (read: the REAL dirty talk your man really wants to hear…)

Know what it is?

Stop thinking. That is the number one rule for today.  Talking and thinking are easily intertwined and can ruin
 one another.

Let me explain.

Have you ever heard the term “think before you speak?”  Of course, we all have. We were all taught that at a very young age.  That we should “think” before We communicate 
our thoughts.

We are told that our thoughts may not be “appropriate” and should be filtered by our minds.

Sure, that works.  In grammar school.

But sex is obviously not grammar.

Society tells us that we should act a certain way, behave within certain boundaries, and portray ourselves by means of filling the mold that has been created for us.
This is called “Social Conditioning.”

Social conditioning tells women that being sexual is wrong.  Ever since the dawn of man, the female sex drive has been under scrutiny, ranging from every culture in the world to every religion in history.

Social conditioning tells us that women who love sex have labels.  They use such labels as “whore” or “slut” to define a “promiscuous woman” and judge them till no end.
Just for acting on their sexual impulses…or even acknowledging that it exists.

(Note:  The word “whore” in old English actually translates to “desire.”  Go figure.)

With all of this nonsense being pounded into your brain your entire life, it is very easy to believe the story it tells.

Obviously, this leads to the “thoughts” before “speaking” to be heavily skewed in favor of what NOT to say…out of fear of judgment, embarrassment and pain.
You know that little voice in your head that says “No!  You can’t say that!” then creates a laundry list of reasons to justify it?  You know that weird angst in your gut you feel when wanting to tell him whats REALLY on your mind?

THAT is what I’m talking about here.  THAT is social conditioning at its finest.  Programming your mind with what NOT to do.

Are you with me?

Clearly, this “no” voice is stifling your sex drive and ruining your chance at fully expressing your sexuality.  Its stopping you from saying all the dirty little things you want to do to your man…and especially the dirty things you want HIM to do to YOU.

Stop!

Don’t think.  That is the goal for tonight.  When things start heating up with your lover tonight and you want to talk dirty… but that little “no” voice acts up…SAY IT IMMEDIATELY.

No hesitation.  Speak before it convinces you not to.  You’ll be surprised how liberating it is.

Now, instead of giving you a million and one “dirty things to say” right off the bat, I am giving you all the tools you need to elevate your sexuality from the very core of your being.  This is a fun and exciting process that you will enjoy.

But, if you really want to get a jump start on things (especially  tackling the whole “social conditioning” issue) then I have just the thing for you.
I actually wrote an entire chapter in my new eBook “Dirty Dialogue:  A Good Girl’s Guide To Being Bad” that rips apart social conditioning…

…explains what’s *really* going on (and how they’ve programmed you to NOT talk dirty)…

…and exactly how to use this all as leverage to fearlessly unleash any sliver of repressed sexuality you have, and deliver super-hot dirty talk almost instantly!

Plus – if you need some serious “quick fixes” right away, I’ve included 3 free bonuses stuffed to the brim with  dirty talk scripts, tips, tricks and tactics you can
use immediately.

Check it out…

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Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

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