3 Easy Steps To Dirty Talk Success

Hey, it’s Devian Day…

Great stuff today – and it’s all about the sex inside of YOU!

Talking dirty, like any other form of communication, is NOT a one-way street. Especially when talking dirty to a guy. If you throw a bunch of dirty talk phrases at him, without understanding the dialogue underneath, you are wasting your time and could very easily turn him off. To avoid sounding stupid, and giving your man the wrong impression with your dirty talk, here are the 3 most important things you should know when learning how to talk dirty to a guy.

1) Unlock Your Sexual Inhibitions

This is, by far, the most important thing to understand when talking dirty to a guy. Your intention must be your own selfish sexual pleasure, which at first, may seem incredibly counter intuitive to most women.

But the facts don’t lie: A man is genetically programmed to please a woman and bring her to orgasm. His “inner caveman” wants desperately to impregnate you and replicate his genes, and since your orgasm makes it easier for his sperm to do their job, your pleasure is his biological goal. This is a scientific fact that only works in your own benefit. Your dirty talk must actually be an expression of your own pleasure, and a means of guiding him to please you properly.

Since men find purpose in accomplishment and achievement, your pleasure is his immediate sexual goal. Give your man what he wants by completely indulging in your sexual experience with him. His ego will go bonkers over his new found sense of sexual pride, and make your dirty talk something he will never forget.

2) Embrace Your Fetish And Fantasies

When talking dirty to a guy, you must be completely authentic at all times.

Nothing is worse than a woman “faking” her pleasure. If a woman fakes an orgasm, and her man finds out, he feels incredibly offended. The reason being, a woman’s expression of pleasure, to him, is feedback of his ability to please.

If she fakes an orgasm, and he initially feels like “the man” in bed…only to find out it was a lie, it instantly communicates that he is NOT a good lover, and in fact, must suck in bed if she goes as far as “pretending” she’s enjoying herself.

Inauthentic dirty talk is no different. If you are talking dirty for the sake of “trying to please” and saying things in a way that’s inauthentic, you will fail. You can exaggerate, of course, but the root of your dirty talk must come from deep within your own sexual self.

3) Connect With Sexual Consciousness

Your comfort zone is extremely important when talking dirty to a guy, and how you react to his dirty talk, sexual advances, etc. But HIS comfort zone is just as important, and a certain conscious level of understanding between you must be understood!

Every man is different. Your man has different fantasies, fetishes, and expectations then the next guy. Saying something one way to one guy may not necessarily work with another. And most importantly, every guy has a different place where he “draws the line.”

If you start talking dirty to a guy by saying things he doesn’t expect – at all – it could shock him into a state of confusion. The best type of dirty talk is when you know your man’s comfort zone and push just *slightly* beyond it each time, giving him something new to enjoy every time you talk dirty, and completely destroy any chance that he will freak out.

If you stick by these three things when talking dirty to your man, you will always be the one in control, whether he knows it or not. Regardless, you will start a back-and-forth dialogue between you and your man, where sex is shamelessly on the table, and you form an unspoken bond of sexual exploration that will only draw the two of you together, 10-times closer than ever before.

And, if you stick with these rules, the whole idea of “what to say when talking dirty” falls away.  Why?

Because when you’re in a sexually authentic mindset – you don’t say something because it’s the “right thing to say”…

No.  Instead …

Its The Right Thing To Say Because You Say It!

Now, the BEST way to utilize this information, is to learn how to talk dirty in a way that makes all of your sexual advances, expressions, and emphasis 100% HIS fault…which makes him feel even *more* like “the man” in bed.

And to tell you the truth: That’s what this whole “Dirty Dialogue” thing is all about – getting inside his head, pushing his hidden sex buttons, and totally connecting at your deepest core!

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So tell me…whats YOUR experience with this? Have you ever said something “silly” because you thought he would like it, only to hear crickets chirping in the background? I’d love to hear about your experiences with this stuff. Leave me a comment below! I really enjoy reading them.

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Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

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