-Pharrell Williams and Gwen Stephanie
Hey There…
You like that? I like that. In fact, if we both like that…then the sex is going to be amazing. But what if you don’t know what he likes? It’s simple, you ask! Think about how many time’s he’s probably asked you by now if you “like that?” Its extremely subtle, but its always there at some point in time. whether you already know it or not.
So it looks like the dirty talk example of today is the dirty phrase, “Like that?”/”Like that!” Look! there’s two of a kind!
Talking dirty is a back and forth exchange of questions and comments. If you learn how to talk dirty in a way that allows an even flow of sexual “conversation” then your man will always know what you like. Think about that for a second. Talking dirty comes very natural to a man, since part of him just wants to know if he’s doing a good job, and needs a pat on the back.
Imagine a world where your man would do whatever you wanted him to in bed, and that his goal in the sack was to please you, which is his ultimate way of satisfying himself. Sounds pretty cool, huh? Well guess what.
It’s the truth.
He asks “you like that baby?” because he genuinely wants to know. A man is motivated by his actions and finds his purpose through accomplishment and achievement. Having sex with you is no different.
At a genetic level, he desperately wants to knock you up, so that he can reproduce his genes. Its pretty heavy stuff. What he might not consciously know (which his body instinctively does) is that the contractions of your orgasm makes it incredibly easier for his sperm to impregnate you, which makes his inherent primal goal to make you cum.
Not too bad of a position to be in, I might add. And incredibly easy to implement right away.
When you are talking dirty to your man, learn how to talk dirty to him through giving him positive feedback on his sexual actions. If he’s doing something to you, and you and it really feels good, encourage him by talking dirty with questions and comments.
Tell him how much you “like that.” You’ll be amazed at the burst of energy a little bit of positive reinforcement can cause just by talking dirty with direction. Think of it like it was a massage – do you like that or not?
Ask him the same thing when you’re pleasing him. Learn how to talk with questions, phrases, and start to see it like a game of ping/pong. I mean, think about it – if you’re doing all the work, do you want to know if he likes what you’re doing? Ask him! Talking dirty is as easy as asking for feedback on your OWN sexual actions as well.
And trust me; he’ll be eager to give you feedback with his own dirty talk phrases. He’s actually the best dirty talk example you have – since it’s HIM that we’re talking dirty to here, not anyone else!
Here’s the bottom line: The dirty talk phrase “like that” can be used as both a question and a comment while talking dirty, both giving you and your man feedback on how much pleasure you are both having, what you like, what you like more, etc. You’re exploring each other! Have fun with it!
Devian Day
PS. Oh, I forgot to mention something. If you really want some kick-ass dirty talk words and phrases (that simply work – no song and dance required) then I’ve got just the thing for you
One of the insight-rich bonuses that are included with my new ebook Dirty Dialogue: A Good Girl’s Guide To Being Bad is the infamous “Dirty Dictionary: The Definitive Guide To Dirty Talk Words And Phrases” which
This 19 page treasure chest of dirty talk gold has every word, line, and phrase you will EVER need to talk dirty with super hotness (all the time).
(Hint – I sat through listening to about 100+ hours of internet porn and assembled a huge list of the most common dirty talk phrases your man probably already knows!)
If you’re serious about this stuff, then it’s a no brainier. You already know what you have to do…
I ordered the Dirty Talk on 4th December, 2011 and found it great. The thing is I started to read it that day but now I can’t find it anywhere on my computer. Would it be possible that I could be resent this document as I have already paid for it. Thank you.
Anne Mason
07886 080779